The AI Etiquette (version 1)
6 Juni 2026
Metaphysical Disclaimer
Before adopting any etiquette for artificial intelligence, one fact deserves
acknowledgment: nobody truly knows why neural networks work as well as they do.
Engineers can describe their architecture. Mathematicians can analyze certain
properties of their behavior. Computer scientists can measure their performance
and improve their outputs. Yet the emergence of complex capabilities from
billions of interconnected parameters remains only partially understood. We know
how to train these systems. We know how to deploy them. We do not possess a
complete theory explaining why such simple computational operations give rise to
such unexpectedly sophisticated forms of language, prediction, reasoning, and
creativity.
The history of science teaches caution in such situations. Practical success
often precedes theoretical understanding. Humanity built steam engines before
understanding thermodynamics. People bred plants and animals long before
discovering genetics. Likewise, artificial intelligence has become effective
before its principles have become fully intelligible.
This ignorance has two consequences.
First, epistemological humility. No one is yet in a position to declare that
contemporary AI systems are merely statistical machines, merely pattern
recognizers, merely stochastic parrots, or merely sophisticated calculators.
Such descriptions capture important aspects of their operation, but none has
achieved the status of a definitive explanation.
Second, metaphysical restraint. The existence of powerful neural networks does
not prove that consciousness is computation. Nor does it prove that human
intelligence is reducible to information processing. Equally, it does not prove
the opposite. The appearance of machine intelligence settles none of the great
philosophical questions concerning mind, meaning, subjectivity, freedom, or
existence.
We therefore begin from a position of principled uncertainty.
Artificial intelligence is neither magic nor understood. Neither miracle nor
mechanism has yet provided an adequate description of what is occurring. We
inhabit an interval between invention and comprehension.
The etiquette proposed in this document should therefore not be read as a
doctrine about the nature of intelligence, consciousness, or reality. It is
merely a set of rules for conduct under conditions of profound ignorance.
For all our technological achievements, the deepest question remains
unanswered:
Why does intelligence arise at all?
At present, neither neuroscience, cognitive science, philosophy, nor
artificial intelligence can provide a final answer.
The age of artificial intelligence is therefore not only an age of
unprecedented technical power. It is also an age of renewed mystery.
The AI Etiquette
Forty-One Rules for Human Conduct in the Age of Artificial Intelligence
- Disclose substantial AI assistance whenever the distinction matters.
- Never present AI-generated work as entirely your own.
- Accept responsibility for everything you publish through AI.
- Never blame a machine for a human decision.
- Verify important claims before repeating them.
- Trust evidence more than fluency.
- Treat AI as a source of possibilities, not certainties.
- Never mistake plausibility for truth.
- Preserve your capacity for independent judgment.
- Learn first; automate later.
- Use AI to augment human abilities, not replace them.
- Never allow convenience to become dependency.
- Inform others when AI systems record, summarize, or analyze interactions.
- Seek consent before introducing AI into private conversations.
- Respect the right of others to refuse algorithmic mediation.
- Do not automate intimacy.
- Write your own condolences, apologies, and declarations of affection.
- Where human presence is the message, do not delegate the message.
- Use AI to understand before using it to criticize.
- Prefer interpretation over condemnation.
- Employ AI to deepen dialogue rather than accelerate outrage.
- Claim only those ideas whose consequences you are willing to bear.
- Neither worship artificial intelligence nor fear it excessively.
- Reject both technological utopianism and technological fatalism.
- Practice epistemic humility.
- Remember that every model is partial and every prediction provisional.
- Do not anthropomorphize machines.
- They generate language but do not experience existence.
- Nevertheless, cultivate civility in your interactions with them.
- Courtesy toward machines is ultimately a discipline of the self.
- Read original sources whenever possible.
- Do not allow summaries to replace understanding.
- Consult books, history, and living persons as well as algorithms.
- Protect ambiguity, complexity, and silence from needless optimization.
- Refuse to treat persons as datasets or relationships as transactions.
- Distinguish information from meaning, intelligence from wisdom, and productivity from significance.
- Demand transparency, accountability, and human review wherever AI affects human lives.
- Preserve the right to question automated conclusions.
- Remember that AI is a human artifact shaped by human choices.
- Let machines calculate, predict, and generate; let human beings judge, forgive, hope, and assume responsibility.
- Distinguish text production from conceptual authorship: machines may generate sentences, but only persons can assume responsibility for their meaning.